My wonderful sister in law, Hol, watched our kids for us while we went to an(other) Imagine Dragons concert. We were originally planning on one of her older daughters to watch the younger kids, but Hol decided to let both of her girls go to the show. She took the four of them to the beach for a few hours and then they were planning to go get pizza for dinner.
They had a little problem when it was time to get shoes on and head out...
Usually they can find a way to get along, but sometimes things get quite testy between my girls.
Jess was feeling a little left out, so she buried Syd's flip flops in the sand. Not completely, but just enough to be more difficult to find than Syd expected.
Syd did not like that. Not one bit. So, what did she do?
She took one of Jess's Crocs and buried it when nobody was looking. She dug a hold, put the Croc down in there, and completely buried it. Then she lost track of where it was buried.
They spent 45 minutes digging around in the sand looking for the shoe. Ya think they found it?
Hol helped the girls understand how our actions affect those around us. Kayman and Ava were not involved in this little tiff of theirs, yet they had to help dig in the sand. They were all hungry. They were frustrated. Tensions were high. This was not a pleasant experience for anyone, but hopefully the girls learned the important lesson that their actions do affect more than just themselves. That revenge is not the best solution. That everybody makes mistakes. That when you make a mistake, you must make it right. That making it right takes humility.
Now, Syd and Jess both have to work to earn money to replace shoes for Jess. They were both at fault, and now they both get to make restitution.
These two are best friends again now. I hope they can remain close as they grow up. Who better to share your secrets with than your sister who has been there with you through everything? A sister is one of the best things in the world!
|Sisters. Best Friends.|